What the objection is claiming

Identifying the Father in Christ is assumed to erase the incarnate Son’s real humanity and relationship to God.

Begin with the text

John 14:9-10

9 Jesus saith unto him, Have I been so long time with you, and yet hast thou not known me, Philip? he that hath seen me hath seen the Father; and how sayest thou then, Shew us the Father? 10 Believest thou not that I am in the Father, and the Father in me? the words that I speak unto you I speak not of myself: but the Father that dwelleth in me, he doeth the works.
Open full referenceJesus explains that seeing Him reveals the Father because the Father dwells and works in Him.

How the passages answer it

Father names God in divine relation and action; Son names the real incarnate life born in time. The Father is not the Son’s humanity, but the Father is fully in the Son. Isaiah can therefore call the born child Mighty God and Everlasting Father without denying His Sonship.